Thursday, September 18, 2014

Pillow Talk

In the entire three years I've had my implants, I have NEVER thought about the changes in my sex life aside from the aesthetic views ;) I'm warning you now, please don't read this particular blog if you are sensitive to a healthy sex life! 

Last night, things quickly got hot & heavy with my boyfriend. I rarely give him oral because it hurts my neck so bad! I decided to treat him, trying my best to give the best BJ in the quickest amount of time before my neck gave out. Literally two minutes go by & I'm ready to tap out because the pain is awful. I tell him to stand up, that way it's less weight on my neck/shoulders, which somewhat helped. Afterwards we get to talking, & I realize I never had this neck problem during oral EVER before him. He pointed out that it could be the weight of my implants, never thought of that! It makes complete sense. The first handful of times I went down on him, I assumed I was too sore from working out but I know for a fact this was not the case this particular evening. I thought that was so interesting because I didn't realize the affects my implants have had on my neck/back, I don't typically have these issues on a daily basis so I assumed there was some other reason! It really got me thinking, what else has changed during sex?!

Woman on top.

I notice when I'm on top, a little bounce never hurt anyone but full "pornstar mode" is not happening. Seriously, how do these women bounce those big ass boobs & not feel awkward pain? It's so awkward to me! I love being on top, I love being wild but please do not ecpext me to bounce like it's a pogo stick. Nope.


I have heard from a friend that doggy is painful for her chest. She said her chest feels too heavy, I'll admit that it's odd when the implants move up when I'm bent down but it is not painful. I barely notice that region during doggy. 


Personally, I'd like to nominate this as the most boring position. No thanks, I usually avoid this one. Occasionally this position happens & I hate the way my boobs move to the sides. I don't know how to explain it, they don't feel supported, but not saggy or ugly. It just feels so weird...

Groping, licking, sucking...

I used to love all this before surgery, now I'm constantly saying "not too hard". It feels so bizarre, not painful. This is a foreign object wrapped in your body's tissue, of course any pressure placed on the implants will feel different or unnatural. I absolutely hate if my boobs get "pulled". Example: if he runs his hands down my chest. HATE THAT!! I hate the feeling of that upper pole skin being pulled down in the wrong direction. It's hard to explain...Nips, I used to love kinky stuff but my sensations have changed. Part of my breast is "numb" bellow the nipple, & sometimes my nipples are extra sensitive. Sometimes they are not as sensitive, they have a mind of their own. I had my nips pierced before, I never put them back in nor do I want to, it seems too sensitive now.

Everything else.

Of course there are so many sexy positions I like, but none are worth mentioning in this topic. These positions are just a few positions that have made a difference since surgery. Every woman will have different changes/sensations post off. There is literally no answer to what the outcome will be. I've talked about sensation changes with other girls, each of my friends with implants had different reactions after surgery. 

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Plastic Surgery...Be realistic ladies!

I'm not sure if I've ever blogged about my plastic surgery experiences besides BA...but if you didn't know, I've had a Rhinoplasty. I had the procedure done in 2009 I believe, this was my first surgery EVER! I was so scared. This actually wasn't a procedure I desired seriously, I was in Las Vegas & a CRAZY chick at a concert sucker punched me when I wasn't even looking. It was SO crazy. I still can't believe it....anyways, the nightclub didn't follow procedure. They assumed I was "intoxicated"-when I wasn't. They never called cops for me to file an assault claim. I went to the ER to document my x-rays and blood alcohol. Let's just say, the nightclub dropped the ball so bad that night-they paid for my medical expenses and rhinoplasty. I'm guessing they didn't want negative publicity...enough of the back story!

Before rhinoplasty, before my broken nose, I had the typical Italian "hump" nose. It never really bothered me, until a few lame dudes pointed it out in high school. That was when the insecurity about my nose started surfacing. I had thought about rhinoplasty when I was in high school, but never seriously thought I would or even needed it badly. After the nightclub incident, my nose was so busted. It was completely disfigured and twice as big. Not only was my appearance affected but my sinuses were causing me so much pain. I lived with it for a few weeks and had the rhinoplasty done.

At the time, I was 19, I definitely couldn't afford plastic surgery & it wasn't something I had in mind. I was so lucky to have the opportunity to fix my nose. When I went to my first couple of consultations I was so scared about the surgery aspect, that I never gave much thought to how I wanted my nose to look! I vaguely discussed the results I had in mind, basically I told this surgeon I wanted it fixed. I wanted it straight. That's all I really said. He asked about the nostrils/tip & I said it wasn't a concern for me. After the successful rhinoplasty, my nose is more aesthetic & not an insecurity as it was in the past. 

I wasn't focused at the time about having a completely different nose, I was focused on repairing my broken nose and septum so I could breath! Rhinoplasty is a very invasive procedure, if you decide to have it done be sure you do not go for the "affordable" doctor. This is your face people!!! I basically trusted this surgeon because my mom trusted him, I felt I was in good hands & he would repair my nose however he felt was best. My results were 100% better, but was I perfect???? Not at all, I know my face obviously I'm able to find little flaws that most people never even notice. It's human nature, we are our own biggest critics. My nose is so much better though, so I can't complain. 

It took about 6mo for the swelling to go down, and over a year for my nose to take final shape. In the end, it was totally worth the excruciating pain from surgery. My nose looks very natural and still has a European look, without the hump of course. It truly fits my face because I have big Italian eyes, a stronger nose fits me. I could have made drastic changes to my nose to appear how most people view rhinoplasty, "done". I'm sorry, but I didn't intend to lose my identity & heritage. I'm glad I stuck with my gut & let this Surgeon work his magic.

5yrs post op, not a bad nose job ;) wish I had before pictures on hand...I took so many on my iphone during that time & lost EVERYTHING!! The only before pics I have are family photos, maybe I'll get some from my parents & post.

My overall point is, plastic surgery is forever modifying. People get so caught up with being perfect, which is completely unrealistic. Have an open mind about your results & talk openly with your surgeon about his/her expectations. You cannot take a picture into a consultation & 100% achieve that same exact image-I promise you, it won't happen that way. People are so stuck on vanity that they forget that aesthetic improvement is better then what you started with!

Monday, August 18, 2014

About me-UPDATED!

Today I googled my name, just out of curiosity. I discovered a thread on realself asking my stats, weight/height, etc. I felt this was an opportunity to update my blog with my current lifestyle and stats.  

Personal Questionnaire:

1.) What are your current measurements, including height & weight?

Currently, I am 5'2 & 114lbs. My weight fluctuates anywhere from 110-118lbs. At the time of my consultation, I was 107lbs-This was before I was serious about my health & fitness routines! My bust (band) is 28", waist is 25" & hip is 29". Currently I prefer to wear a 32DDD bra from Victoria's Secret, because it is multi-way. I base my bra selections off of the occasion.

2.) How does working out affect implants? Do you lift weights or cardio?

I love weightlifting, I am by no means a body builder but I appreciate the curves weight lifting has done for my body. In the past I chose cardio workouts, which I did lose alot of weight but I wanted to be toned not skinny. I prefer weight lifting, it has had minimal affects to my implants. Visually there is no appearance difference. Physically, some of the chest workouts do make me sore the next day. I mostly stick with tabata, plyo & pilates type workouts.

3.) Who did your breast augmentation, and can you provide his contact info?

Dr. Ian Walker of Colorado Springs, CO. Recently a good friend tried contacting his office, she was informed he has retired. He was elderly, I'm not surprised he finally retired. I'm sorry ladies! He does have a colleague at his old office that has taken over his patients/referrals. Unfortunately I do not have that info. The office is located off Tejon I believe you could google Dr. Walker and still find the office info.

4.) I want mine to look just like yours, what kind of breast augmentation did you get?

I have 500cc HP Mentor Silicon implants, they are placed dual plane which is basically half under. My advice is to have an open mind what your surgeon recommends for the results you would like to achieve. If you have a good Doctor, they should be able to give you what you'd like or provide reasons why it is not tangible. In reality, nobody can give exact same results. Naturally, everyone's boobs & bodies are different. It is great to have an image goal in mind, but be open minded about the outcome results. If you're looking for perfection, you will surely be disappointed. Be happy with improvement, not perfection (:

5.) Can I find you on Social Media?

Yes! My permanent instagram handle is @_Christin11
My facebook is Christin Mitchell. 
I do not have any other active social media accounts.

6.) What do you do for a living? Do implants affect your work life?

I am an Electrical Service Coordinator & Estimator for an Electrical Contractor. I also attend full time school to pursue my degree in  business management. My implants have no physical affects on my daily routine but I definitely dress more conservatively by choice. I personally feel I need to dress modestly because I do work around men, and I need them to take me serious. 

7.) What hobbies and interests do you have in your personal life?

I enjoy being with my two Great Danes, I take them out for walks & swimming. They are my fur babies! I enjoy food & culture, any free time I get to spend out of town for vacation or day trips I make it a priority to try something new. I am very in tune with my body, I like to spend most of my days off catching up on a good workout & housework. I am almost 25 now, alot has changed since the beginning of my blog. I am much more low key, if it's not a family related event or a date with my boyfriend-I rarely go out. I am so busy with work & full time school!!! A glass of wine or martini is a wild night for me ;)

Any lingering questions I missed? Feel free to ask (: I love your feedback!